Survival – #dosomethingyummy

This week’s #dosomethingyummy blog prompt is all about survival. I know all about that!

Typecast’s #dosomethingyummy campaign is all about raising awareness for the fabulous children cancer charity CLIC Sargent and their Yummy Mummy Week which runs from 10th to the 18th March.

I, myself, have never been touched by cancer, although family members have. Some survived, others, sadly, did not. Therefore I, fortunately, can’t blog about surviving cancer. I can however, follow the personal prompt. “Tell us your story of survival. What did you overcome?”

As most of my readers will know I survived pre eclampsia. I beat it. I overcame it. I won!

As many as one in twenty pregnancies are affected by pre eclampsia, which can be very dangerous for both mum and baby if untreated. Even in this modern age eclampsia still claims lives.

Pre eclampsia means ‘before eclampsia’ as it can progress to a more dangerous condition known as eclampsia, which occurs in one in 2,000 pregnancies. Eclampsia can cause fits or convulsions. In severe cases, eclampsia can sometimes cause the death of the mother and/or the baby.

I’ve taken a lot of the content for this post from Tommy’s, a charity giving babies the best chance of being born healthy. Please do have a look at their website for further information about this disease and other pregnancy related illnesses. I’m sure Tommy’s won’t mind one bit if it raises awareness of the disease.

The signs and symptoms to look for are:

* raised blood pressure combined with the presence of protein in the urine

If pre eclampsia gets more severe, more serious symptoms can develop, including:

* headaches
* blurred or altered vision
* severe heartburn
* nausea or vomiting
* confusion
* shortness of breath
* severe oedema (swelling of the face, hands and/or feet)

I presented at my GP’s surgery at 24 weeks with severe oedema and high blood pressure. They dipped my urine, which was clear, but sent me to MAU (Maternity Assessment Unit) at my chosen hospital as a precaution. By the time I got there my BP had gone back to normal (slightly raised but nothing to worry about).

There proceeded weeks and weeks of trips to and from the hospital for monitoring. Extra growth scans. Urine dip tests. Listening to Littlebit (then named Smudge) through the monitor and of course monitoring my BP.

At 26 weeks I was medicated as my BP was rising. I was admitted twice. Once I had + protein in my urine but nothing they were too worried about.

The thing they worried about most was Smudge’s “accelerations”. I had to press a button when she kicked me and they would usually see an increase in a baby’s heart rate. Not with Smudge though. She stayed pretty constant at 145 bpm, whether still, sleeping or doing summersaults. This worried them. A lot. I still don’t really know why :(

Then at 30 weeks, during an extra growth scan, they discovered Smudge had stopped growing. My BP was taken again and it was sky high. They also got the first positive result from a urine test +++.

I won’t go into great detail on what happened next as you can read about it in my birth story. But needless to say I survived death.

I don’t remember much. I was told I had gone into medical shock as they were taking me into theatre. My c-section couldn’t have been better timed. The medical team saved us both.

All through it I felt pretty much ok. My only real symptoms were severe oedema and high BP.

During my post op stay at Kettering General Hospital (I was readmitted here only a day after being released from George Eliot Hospital as I had become quite poorly again) I also had a mild headache and “floaters” in my eyes but again this was quite mild. I suppose that is why pre eclampsia is sometimes called the silent killer.

All of the above is why we won’t be having any more kids. It is the right decision for us. Women who have already had pre eclampsia in one pregnancy have an greater chance (16 to 25 percent, and 55 percent if their previous baby was delivered before 28 weeks) of developing it again in a next pregnancy.

I don’t want to have to survive again, once in a lifetime is quite enough!

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Meal planning Monday 20-Feb-12

Mrs M over at At Home with Mrs M hosts this linky week in week out and it’s great. It’s really keeping me on track with my eating and money saving :)

So, here’s this weeks planner. I’ve got to be extra careful this week as after a not so brilliant weekend and next Friday and Saturday being out for dinner I need to make sure I stick with it the rest of the week.

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Listography – Mugs!

When Kate takes 5 put this Listography up she said, I quote “Ok I realise that this Listography is completely ridiculous and will probably have zero entries but I’ve wanted to do it for awhile and since no other light bulbs went off above my head this week we’re stuck with it.”

She couldn’t have been more wrong. It’s been really successful and I can see why. It’s a fab Listography and I’m linking up too :)

I love mugs too. I have a different one for different drinks and times of day. I kid you not. I am a bit of a mug freak too Kate.

So, here goes:

This is my preferred “first coffee” mug. It’s just the right size for that all important manna from heaven.

We were bought these on our wedding day, surprise surprise. I like to have my coffee in mine throughout the morning. It feels special somehow and reminds me of when I was a bride :)

These are my cup a soup / mug shot / bouillon mugs. They’re spot on the right size to add just enough water to said lunch time items.

Afternoon slump? Not with espresso around. We bought these (along with my “first coffee” mug) on our trip to Disneyland Paris last year. I’d never really been into espresso before then, but we went into Paris for the day and arrived at the Pompidou centre about an hour before it opened, bad planning! So we sat in a street cafe with Littlebit, who was then 9 months old and drank espresso. It was the best part of the trip, we were so relaxed and just loving watching the world go by and all the attention Littlebit was getting.

Last but not least, my hot squash mug. I used to enjoy a large cup of coffee from this, but since doing Slimming World I am drinking far less coffee and thus find I can’t actually stomach such a large mug. I’m trying to drink more water too, laced with sugar free squash sometimes as I hate any kind of tea / fruit tea etc. but want to drink other hot drinks, and I love a hot squash, so this is my mug of choice. Starbucks would be ashamed.

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Thankful Third Thursday

The meme rules: on the third Thursday of every month I blog about ten things I am thankful for. Then tag three (note the t’s) people in the meme to pass it on.

So here we go…ten things I am thankful for this Thankful Third Thursday:

1. CBeebies - having had either an ill Littlebit or been ill myself for at least 3 of the 7 days in a week for the last 3 weeks I have relied heavily on CBeebies to entertain. Littlebit has been very happy to just play in front of it for hours on end, thank goodness.

2. For being well again – although CBeebies has been my saviour there is only so much of it one can take and when I walk into my kitchen, see a butternut squash and am surprised it has no eyes, nose and mouth I know I have Mr Bloom overload. I am thankful to be out and about again and that Littlebit can see and play with all her friends again.

3. For having my baby girl with me. I see stories all the time about people who have lost their babies, both preemies and babies born with life threatening conditions like @EstellaStar1. I am so grateful that our story is so different. You can read about Estella here and about how they are trying to smash SMA. A very worthy read.

4. My fabulous family. As @Beadzoid pointed out on one of my recent posts Stay at home mama….or not? I am really lucky to have both our sets of parents close. This really helped when we were recently struck down with a sickness bug. The parents came to the rescue and looked after Littlebit for a couple of days so we could recover.

5. Slimming World, since being back on plan I feel healthier than I have done in a long time. It’s such an easy diet to follow and means you can still eat large meals, just large healthy meals. I’m really enjoying it this time too.

6. My friend Amy who is coming along to Slimming World with me. She gives me that extra push as I feel accountable to her for what I see on those scales at weekly weigh in too.

7. Meal planning monday is really helping with our new cost saving measures and the weight loss regime. I am still really enjoying cutting back on our spending too, something I never thought I’d say.

8. Twitter. Up until recently I had been a bit of a Facebook addict and scorned twitter, but actually I am turning. I find twitter so much fun when I have a spare 10 minutes.

9. My beautiful, darling daughter. Just because she amazes me every single day. I am so in love with her I can’t express it in words.

10. My wonderful husband. We have our ups and downs, but when we have our downs we recover quickly and I love him more every single day.

So, what unsuspecting blogger is tagged? What are you thankful for this Third Thursday:

Motherventing
Lakes single mum
Mummy Beadzoid

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Strength in Numbers – #dosomethingyummy

I’ve not participated in this campaign yet, manly because I just haven’t had the time or brain space to really give it my all. But now I have been tagged by the gorgeous Kylie over at Not even a bag of sugar and I quite simply couldn’t let her down so it’s given me the kick up the butt I probably needed to get onto this.

So, this is my post for Typecast’s #dosomethingyummy link up for CLIC Sargent. I had never heard of  CLIC Sargent before Kylie joined this campaign but seeing her write about it I did have a look at their website and I have learnt that they give practical support to children and their families going through cancer.

Every day 10 families are told their child has cancer. Can you imagine that? I don’t even want to try to imagine it. As the UK’s leading children’s cancer charity, CLIC Sargent is the only organisation to offer them all round care and support.

If all this post does is raise a tiny bit more awareness for CLICSargent and their fantastic work then it’ll be a job well done.

I have gone for Typecasts Yummy prompt. Yummy Mummy week which runs from 10th to 18th March 2012 is all about getting together with other parents to raise money for CLIC Sargent.  Tell us why getting together with other parents is important to you. 

When Littlebit came home from hospital I had no idea what to do with her. She was still only 4lbs and couldn’t really maintain her temperature. It was last winter when we had that heavy, heavy snow for weeks on end and thus I ended up being pretty much confined to the house for the first 6 weeks.

Luckily I had an amazing Health Visitor at the time who was so very supportive. She had been a neonatal nurse herself so knew about the complexities of premature babies and the spectrum of emotions I, as a mum, was going through now she was home.

I’d made one very good mummy friend during Littlebit’s hospital stay, her baby came home the week after Littlebit. But she wasn’t local and she was in the same position as me with not being able to get out and about.

My health visitor visited every few days to begin with and then weekly for the first 6 weeks. This was brilliant as it meant that I had some contact outside of my immediate family and friends during that time. When Littlebit was 16 weeks old and had been home 8 and a half weeks she sent me to a Post Natal group run at our local cottage hospital. It was the best thing she could have done.

It’s a fantastic service that our local NHS provides, and one that doesn’t appear to be repeated everywhere, which is a real shame. We covered subjects like books for babies (the local library came in to do a talk about their Wriggly Readers session), baby massage demo (if you liked this you could sign up for the free 4 week course), sleep, minor illnesses, sing and sign demonstration, play safe, our local toy library scheme. All of these things were invaluable. But more than that, was the people I met there. There was one other preemie mum who I immediately struck it off with, but also there were lots of mums of termies who were due around the same time as Littlebit that I became great friends with.

After the post natal group had finished we started meeting up on a weekly basis, going to the local library and then for a cuppa and a chat. Those guys got me through any difficult times. We called ourselves Hinckley Yummy Mummies and set up a Facebook group and have turned into quite a large peer to peer support network, with over 200 member,  for the local area.

We don’t see each other as much these days, mainly because some mummies have returned to work and other things get in the way of us going to Wriggly Readers every week. But we do make sure we meet up every month of so, so the littlies can get together and we can have a catch up. It’s so important.

We went out this Sunday, to a local soft play area. It was great fun.

Hubs at the top of the slide with Littlebit and one of the other mummies and her little girl.

For me, these other mums are a wealth of information and experience and people that it’s really good to share and have a good natter with. If you’re going through something you can pretty much guarantee one of them has been through it themselves too. I wouldn’t be without them :)

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The new place wot I discovered

I can’t take the credit for this one at all as it was actually @thevoiceofboo who discovered this place and then blogged about it here and here and a third post here. It really is good enough for three blogs posts too.

So, where I am talking about? Why The Gardenbarn of course. It is just lovely.

It’s a home and garden store that doubles as an espresso bar and cafe.

They sell some lovely, different pieces. Although on both of my visits last week I didn’t actually buy anything, though that is more to do with the money saving shizzle than it is to do with the shop. Believe me, if we win the Euromillions tonight then it’ll be my second stop (after the Aston Martin shop).

There were some lovely pieces of wall art that would look great in our house. Unique cards. Antiques. Fabulous garden sculptures. Just lots and lots of interesting things. It is the kind of place you could go if you need a gift for the person who has everything!

But enough about the shop as it is actually the cafe that I am totally in love with. Mum, Littlebit and myself went for the first time last Thursday. When we first went in we were struck by the cold, ee by gum it were “freezing me tits off” cold. But we were assured that it would be warm up in the gallery so we duly ordered coffee and cake, parked the pushchair and headed on up.

It was lovely and snug, with a wood burning fire and comfy chairs. Some sofas and some hard chairs. A great view if you were sat on one of the lower level seats as the windows are at a bit of a random height. A mismatch of  furniture that just adds to its charm.

The staff were brilliantly helpful. They went and fetched a highchair from downstairs, which I was really pleased to see was the same as our IKEA highchair at home and brought our order upstairs to us. Mum had a lovely piece of Yorkshire curd tart and Littlebit a flapjack. I stuck with a cappuccino, being on my diet and that. Though I must admit I did have a taste of both, they were lush.

On our second visit, Saturday with hubby and Littlebit, I discovered the “downstairs” of which the staff had talked on Thursday. How I missed it the first time I don’t know. It was again a lovely warm room (though no wood burner), with just two large tables seating five each. But with the addition of a closed door, no dangerous stairs for little ones to run towards, two highchairs and best of all a lovely little play area for the kids.

We indulged in their lovely freshly made soup of the day, which was curried sweet potato topped with a variety of seeds, fresh herbs and a drizzle of cream. It was delightful. Served with a beautifully baked mini cottage loaf.

Littlebit had a mini cottage loaf to herself as unfortunately they don’t do any kind of sandwich. But the soup was that good it really didn’t matter. Littlebit followed her bread and butter with a fruity cupcake topped with vanilla buttercream and fudge pieces. Well Littlebit and Daddy I should say, good job she doesn’t mind sharing.

Littlebit was then entertained by Daddy reading a couple of the wealth of books they had available for the kids.

I really would recommend a visit if you’re local, and if you do go take a diversion into Cotesbach on the way and swap a book at the village book exchange.

Yes, it’s in a phone box. Yes, it is rather fabulous and if you want to know more the ladies over at @Iamintothis have blogged about it here.

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Meal planning Monday 13-Feb-2012

So, here’s this weeks offerings. Do take a look at Mrs M’s blog, the home of Meal Planning Monday. The home cooking of the Slimming World recipes paid off last week as I was Slimmer of the Week with a 4lb loss.

So I’m going for the same again with a couple of meals out at the famalam’s respective houses.

On top of that I plan to have a batch cooking day of some winter warmer soups that I can freeze and pop out in the morning for healthy and wholesome lunches.

I plan to make:

Slimming world creamy mushroom soup
Slimming world leek and potato soup
Slimming world butternut squash soup
Slimming world Goan potato soup

All of which are either no syn or very low syn. Bring on the half stone loss award!

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